One of the great things that getting my game back, yes there was a brief stint of oneitis, a brief stint of game-less beta-like behaviour – lack of game (not completely, just by my standards, i was still pulling hot chicks) – has given me the ability to get back to a place where i can sit back and watch how other people react about things. It’s like i am sitting in a protective shield, or on another plane of existence, and can interact with people, but their actions and reactions can’t actually touch me.

What i’m rediscovering – and hasn’t changed in, well probably for ever, with the exception that it might be getting worse – is that people take life too seriously. People get stressed, push people away in order to avoid being hurt by them, allow their buttons to be pushed for something they believe strongly in, spew spiteful things at others when they disagree with them, get in crabby moods because of how others are acting towards them, and hypersensitivity. Girls display these actions the most, but it’s certainly not contained to just them, after all, they really just follow men’s lead. Look at the political climate in the US and in Canada, everyone is so polarized that they can’t see the reality of what’s actually good for our countries. And it all comes down to taking things too fucking seriously

It’s always been my motto, the source of my aloof game, my interesting game, my fun game, my confidence game; that life is about enjoying it, serious stuff will happen to you, so why worry about it, why take the non-serious stuff with anything but a playfulness of a kitten with some string? I mean, all this stuff doesn’t matter in the end. In the end you die, and you remember nothing. You can have an impact in the world, yes, that may or may not last over time, and it’s good to want to change things, i do this all the time, but it still really doesn’t matter. People are still shit, they were 1000 years ago, they are now. Really life is about teaching, and spreading inspiration – not about fear mongering and attention whoring. People act like everything they do and think has some weird massive impact, it doesn’t. Sit back and look at it and let it go. Look we all make mistakes, my theory is that people who take things too seriously are people who made mistakes and can’t come to terms with them, they want to ensure that they don’t make these same mistakes so they gaurd against any and all possible threats.

People also build up their beliefs as who they are, and what type of person they are, so they cling to it like its their baby they’re protecting. The are insecure, frightened people. Taking things seriously, or too seriously, is the most frustrating thing in our modern world. It is the only thing that actually annoys me and pushes my buttons. I don’t care, but when someone can’t just relax, talk openly, with intelligence, share opinions, and have a good time, i don’t want to continue talking to them. It’s a good thing to learn to not take things seriously to pick up girls, because it’s the frame you want to be in, aloof, indifferent, calm and collected. Actually, strike that, people take all the wrong things too seriously. Chill out and have a good time. Basically, just don’t give a shit, I don’t.